Are you seeking encouragement and guidance from professionals
who know
from their own experience what it takes to make it through turbulent
times?
Welcome to our community. We’re a group of
success-minded people
who have decided to journey together into life’s uncharted
territories
.
We’re Bonnie and Lynn,
affectionately known as the
Shifter Sisters. We’re the co-creators of Lifelines
to
Laughlines™: The Secret Strategies for Navigating
Life’s Tough Transitions.
Below you will find answers to frequently asked questions.
If you have questions that we haven’t answered here
or in any
other place on our web site, please call us at 321-259-4404
or email
us.
We will gladly provide you with
the information you seek.
Our intention is to guide you to your heart’s
desires that are
waiting for you beyond your challenging times.
Bonnie and Lynn, the Shifter Sisters
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Questions
at a
Glance
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General Questions
Q:
How did you come up with the name
Lifelines to Laughlines?
Q:
What is the philosophy behind Lifelines?
Q:
What do you mean by “Personal Life and Success
Blueprint?”
Q:
What do you mean by “spiritual ?”
Q:
Is individual coaching available?
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Questions About the Introductory Session
Q:
Why is there an introductory session?
Q:
Do I have to take the introduction before I participate in the
program?
Q:
Why is it free?
Q:
How can I participate in an Introductory session?
Q:
When is the next session?
Q:
Can I start today?
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Questions About the Lifelines Program
Q:
What kind of program is Lifelines to Laughlines?
Q:
Who is this program designed for?
Q:
What transitions are addressed?
Q:
What stages of transition do you take us through?
Q:
What are the benefits of participating?
Q:
What is the content based on?
Q:
What is the format of the program?
Q:
What is the format of each session?
Q:
Why is the program conducted on the phone?
Q:
Are all programs the same?
Q:
Are there live events?
Q:
Are there in-person events?
Q:
What if I have to miss a session?
Q:
How do I register for the Lifelines Program™?
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Questions
About the
Guides
Q:
Who are the guides?
Q:
Can I meet Lynn and Bonnie before registering for the program?
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Questions About the Lifelines Community
Q:
What is the Lifelines Community?
Q: What are the
benefits
of becoming a
member?
Q:
Who is in the community?
Q:
How can I join the Lifeline Community™?
Q:
What is a Lifeline Buddy™?
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Financial
Questions
Q:
What does the program cost?
Q: What discounts
are available?
Q: What are the
methods for paying?
Q: What is your
refund policy?
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If
you have any other
questions,
please
call us at 321-259-4404
or
email us.
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Answers to General
Questions
Q:
How did you come up with the name Lifelines
to Laughlines?
During the toughest
times,
when
Lynn and I talked
about how we felt, we used an assortment of metaphors. One we often
used is
about being caught off guard in a sudden storm. We were wanting someone
to
throw us a lifeline.
One day we were
talking
about
what happened to us
after we had caught our lifelines and found our way to solid ground. We
knew we wanted to do more than just make it through the transitions. We
wanted to be more fully alive. We wanted to be laughing more. And so
Lifelines to Laughlines was born.
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Q: What is the philosophy behind Lifelines?
We believe each moment of life is precious. Each moment holds an
opportunity for a joy-filled experience. Each experience holds the key
to a
happier, healthier you. Through our personal experience, we have come
to
believe that this is especially true while we are navigating
transitions.
Our program has been
created
to light the path for all of us to show
up
as the most magnificent Being we are.
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Q: What do you mean when you say that we all
have an unconscious blueprint for success in
business and in life?
We all have a past that impacts how we perceive, interpret and respond
to the people, places and events in our lives. These past experiences
have contributed to us forming our many beliefs. While we are
conscious of some of the beliefs that color our world, most of them
are hidden below our conscious awareness. None the less, this
subconscious programming is responsible for who and what shows up in
our lives, and how we deal with it all.
The good news is that we can choose to change our blueprint. Yes, this
does require conscious effort and practice. Yet as we look at the
results of what we have created, we have the opportunity to turn our
disorientation and dissatisfaction into personal power and
motivation.
The journey through our transitions is the perfect time and space to
explore our inner landscape and choose what we nurture, what weeds we
remove, and new seeds we plant.
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Q: What do you mean by “Spiritual?”
We honor all religions
and
see them all as paths to becoming more conscious,
loving and fully alive. We believe there is only One Source with many
names, that we are all connected to this Source and to each other,
and that all of us are a unique expression of this Oneness. A
spiritual life is one where we become more and more conscious of this
connection. When we approach the transition process from this
perspective, we have an opportunity to form a deeper connection with
our Source, and to practice thinking, feeling and acting in the faith
that all is well in our world, even when our perception says
otherwise.
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Q: Is individual coaching available?
Yes. There are several reasons why you might choose to do private
sessions with
either of us.
- You want our full and undivided attention and the program
to be totally
focused on addressing your needs.
- You might want to get started immediately rather than wait
until the
next program begins.
- Your schedule might not fit with when we offer the program.
Whatever the reason, please email
or call us at 321-259-4404
to explore this possibility.
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Answers About the
Introduction
The
first session to the Lifelines Program is the free
Introduction.
You’ll learn about how major life changes can trigger tough
transitions, and experience skills and tools you can immediately put
to use. You’ll also meet your guides, Bonnie and Lynn.
Q:
Why is there an introductory session?
We want to be the perfect solution
for our participants. We know that for
you to truly benefit from participating in Lifelines™, you
need to
feel safe to share your feelings and to receive the support,
encouragement
and guidance we offer. We believe for that to happen you need to know
us, to feel comfortable and connected with us. This introductory
session provides this opportunity.
During the
free, one-hour session you will hear what our intentions are for you;
learn about the components of the program; listen to how this program
will assist you through your transition and benefit your life. Then
you will be able to decide if we are a fit for you.
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Q:
Do
I have to take the Introduction before I take the rest of the
program?
Everyone
does need to participate in the Introduction before taking the
program. The material covered in the Introduction is the foundation
for the subsequent six sessions. Session #1 of the fee-based
Lifelines Program is not a duplicate of the
Introduction.
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Q:
Why
is it free?
We
want you to be sure we are a match for you before you sign up for the
fee-based program. Since the program is interactive and experiential,
our intention is that we attract only like-minded individuals who
will support and encourage each other.
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Q: How can
I
participate in the
Introduction?
You can sign
up for the live telephone-based session.
You can also
listen to a prerecorded session
right
now.
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When
is the next session?
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Q:
Can
I start
today?
Yes. Sign
up for the live Introduction that's most convenient for you or listen to a recording of a previous
session.
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Answers
About
The Program
Lifelines
is a program designed to assist you in coping with and getting
through transitions triggered by major life changes.
Lifelines
takes a unique approach, combining the benefits of being in a support
group and an educational program. Bonnie and Lynn introduce concepts
selected to increase understanding and acceptance of the inner
landscape that accompanies challenging transitions.
Conversations
always follow delivery of information so that participants have an
opportunity to explore the material further and discover how it is
relevant to them. The interactive, experiential program provides you
with opportunities to explore beliefs, as well as practice and
integrate behaviors and skills that you will find helpful as you move
through the
transition process.
Participate
from the comfort of your home with no travel costs. We use
teleconference technology to bring together success-minded people
independent of geography and time zones.
Because
meeting for one hour a week is not enough time to learn and master
new attitudes and life skills, Lifelines is also a home
study
program. We provide you with resource materials via our website and
email so that you can study and practice between classes.
This
approach is the highest form of adult education. It is based on
models that work with many learning styles and support adult learners
best. You are part of a virtual community, able to connect with other
participants during and between session, while you study
the materials in your own way on your own
time.
You
benefit for
the rest of your life. Participation
in the program will also contribute to your greater success in
business and in life, and you’ll be better prepared for
whatever
the future may bring.
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Q:
What kind of program is this?
It’s
a cross between a support group and an educational seminar. We want
you to feel relief that you’re not broken or crazy, hopeful
for a
brighter tomorrow, empowered to thrive through tough transitions, and
to have the support, skills and know-how to do so.
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Q:
Who
is this program designed
for?
- People who are going through a tough transition triggered
by major life changes.
- People who see one coming.
- People who have made it through a transition
and want to find meaning in the experience.
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Q:
What
transitions are
addressed?
The
following events are among the many possibilities we believe are
likely to trigger tough transitions: loss of a loved one; divorce;
loss of your job, career or business; children leaving or coming
home; illness or injury, yours or a loved one; parent(s) coming to
live with you or requiring your care; financial challenges; choosing
to start a business, change careers, or retire. One quality each of
these life changes has in common is that they all disrupt our daily
routine and thrust us into unknown, unsettling, and frightening
territory.
We also
address life changes that are considered to be joyful blessings such
as marriage, birth, a financial windfall, children graduating and
going off on their own. These, too, are major changes that impact our
lives. In a way they are more confusing and challenging because we,
and others, tend to judge the doubts and fears we experience as
inappropriate and wrong. They are none the less real and
disruptive.
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Q:
What
are the stages of
transition you take us through?
Some
transitions occur by choice and others are thrust upon us whether or
not we’re ready. Some are predictable while others take us by
surprise. Some are pleasant and welcome, while others are not.
Sometimes a change may cause us considerable pain during the
transition, then in retrospect we see the experience as a turning
point that lead to a positive outcome.
What we
have found is that while each transition is different in its specific
form, each has some similar characteristics.
There
are
many models and many metaphors used to describe the transition
process, the stages, and how we feel during them. We have chosen to
work with two models of transition.
- Each transition consists of three distinct stages: endings,
the void,
and new beginnings.
- Our lives go through cycles much like the cycle of
seasons. Like the transition between seasons, the stages in transition
aren’t linear or clearly defined. Phases often overlap and
sometimes seem to reappear after we ‘thought we had worked
through that one,” much like the snow storm in spring, and
the warm, summer-like days of Indian summer, after days of cooler fall
weather.
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Q:
What
are the benefits of
participating?
- You will be a member of a safe, healing community
and have opportunities to bond with like-minded people who are
committed to support and encourage you through life’s
turbulent waters.
- You will develop new attitudes and beliefs,
learn life skills, develop behaviors, and hear more clearly your inner
voice that you might:
- Move through transitions more consciously
and gracefully.
- Know when to hold on to what you are accustomed to
... and when to let go and move into the next phase of your life.
- Come up with solutions to personal and professional
challenges.
- Tap into the transformative power of
life’s major transitions.
- Participation in the program will contribute to
greater success in business and in life.
- You’ll be better prepared for whatever
the future may bring.
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Q:
What
is the content based
on?
The
program content is eclectic. We weave together materials from all of
the following: positive psychology, life skills, spiritual practices,
and how to optimize the integration of mind, body and
spirit.
We
also
explore what scientists are learning about how the human brain works,
and how we interpret and respond to what happens in and around us.
Science has been providing us with tangible evidence that
we’re not
broken and we’re not crazy. We’re dealing with the
way the body
and brain are hardwired and programmed. We’ll be learning
about how
we’re built and what we can and cannot change so that we can
make
the best of being human.
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Q: What is the format of
the
program?
The
program consists of seven one-hour sessions. The
Introduction is free. There is a fee for participating in
the
additional six sessions.
We believe
that a one-time event provides exposure to information. It takes
repetition and practice to learn, master and integrate new beliefs,
skills and behaviors.
That’s
why our program is experiential and active. You have many
opportunities to interact with the guides and other participants
during every class: to talk about where you are; what you’re
going
through; what you’re thinking and feeling; where
you’re confused
or stuck; and to ask others for their perspective, feedback, and
alternative solutions.
In
addition, we include several activities in each session. The
exercises and practices allow you to apply what you’re
learning.
Reading about the transition process and the transformative power of
major life changes has an effect at the level of thinking. Your
patterns of feeling and behaving remain untouched. You need to
integrate thought, feeling and behaving before you’ll
experience a
change in your personal reality.
We
encourage you to practice those activities most meaningful to you
between sessions.
All of
this contributes to Lifelines being more effective and
producing
longer lasting, more permanent results than reading books or
atte nding weekend seminars.
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Q:
What is the format of each session?
Each
session begins with a welcoming, followed by a moment for the group
to become present and centered. We state our intentions for that
particular session. Then everyone is invited to share what happened
since the last session, especially as it applies to their
practices.
After
introducing the theme for the session, we weave together a
combination of open discussion, experiential activities, and
information that supports the topic. At times during the call we
recommend activities the participants might want to practice during
the coming weeks.
Before we
close, we ask if anyone has any final questions or comments. Then we
ask people to share the most significant concept or insight from that
session.
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Q: Why
is
the program
conducted
on the phone?
We’ve
noticed that sometimes it’s easier to share intimate things
when we’re on the phone.
There
are several other reasons we decided to offer Lifelines on
the
phone.
- People from anywhere in the world can participate.
We all benefit because the participants will bring with them a greater
diversity in knowledge, experience and practices.
- You get to be in the comfort of your home or office.
- We are able to offer the sessions at a greater
selection of times and days, so it is more likely that you’ll
find the program offered when it works for you.
- There’s no travel time or expense. The only
expense is the cost
of your long distance telephone time.
Programs,
sessions and classes that are conducted on telephone conference calls
are also called “tele-programs,”
“teleconferences,“ and
“teleclasses” or similar variations.
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Q:
Are
all programs the same?
People
who
sign up for a particular offering of the program go through the
sessions together. Because each person brings his or her own
knowledge and experience, each group is unique. We individualize each
program to some extent to meet the needs of those who are in each
group.
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Q:
Are
there live classes?
The free
Introduction to the Lifelines Program, the prerequisite to
participating in the Lifelines Program, is offered via live
teleconferences. You can sign
up now for the live session
that is most convenient for you.
The calls
are recorded, so that if you miss a session, you can listen to it.
You can only listen to sessions of the group you’re
in.
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Q: Are
there
in-person
events?
At
this time the program is only offered via live telephone conference
calls. We are planning to do in-person events in the
future.
If
you wish to invite us to be a presenter at an in-person conference or
sponsor an in-person program, we would love to explore the
possibilities with you.
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Q:
Do
you offer resource
material to provide additional information and support between
sessions?
In the
near future, chat rooms and bulletin boards so you can stay
connected with other members of the Lifeline Community™.
We
will
also be providing written and audio versions of exercises and
activities.
Some
of
these will be in areas reserved for program participants
only.
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Q:
What
if
I
miss a session?
We
understand that you are a busy person and have complex schedules. If
for any reason you are unable to attend a session, you will be able
to listen to it on our website as we record all calls. All program
calls are posted to password protected areas of our website. Only
people in your group will have access to your group’s
calls.
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Q: How do
I
register for the
Lifelines Program?
Click
here to see when the program is offered and register.
Please
remember
that while you can register for the
Lifelines
Program at any time, we highly recommend that you participate in the
Introduction
to
the
Lifelines Program before you actually participate in the
program. That's because the material in the additional six sessions are
built
upon what is covered during the
Introduction.
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Answers About Life Coaches, Bonnie &
Lynn
Q:
Who
are the guides?
Compassionate
professionals serve as your guides. We, Lynn
and Bonnie, affectionately known as the Shifter Sisters, have years
of experience and impressive credentials.
Each
of us has successfully navigated our way through turbulent times
initiated by a sequence of major life changes. While
we had found comfort and guidance in our friendship, we often spoke
of wishing we had additional support and encouragement. We wanted to
work with guides who had professional training and had been through
turbulent transitions themselves. We wanted to connect with a
community of success-minded people to journey together into the
uncharted territory of life’s major transitions.
Once
on solid ground, we realized we were the perfect pair to co-create
the Lifelines Program, and to serve as guides for others who
wanted to uncover the deeper meaning, purpose and blessings hidden
within their personal experience.
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Q: Can I
meet
Lynn and
Bonnie?
We
want you to be sure that you feel connected to us before you register
for the program, so we invite you to
join
us for the free Introduction to Lifelines Program.
You will learn more about us
throughout
the website, especially at Meet
Bonnie and Lynn, the Shifter Sisters.
You
can also call us at 321-259-4404
or
email us.
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Answers
About
the Lifelines Community™
Join
our virtual community of success-minded people who offer each other
support and encouragement as they journey through their transitions
together.
Q:
What is the Lifelines
Community?
The Lifelines
Community
is made up of all people who wish to become a member.
You join by providing
your
name and email address. We have
a
Privacy
Policy regarding all information provided. Members gain
access to a
great deal more than people who choose to simply visit our site.
All those
who participate in the Lifelines Program are automatically
members of our community.
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Q: What are the benefits of
becoming
a
member?
You get access to the "Members Only"
only section of the webiste. There you will find articles and audio
recordings of interviews Bonnie does with professionals and spiritual
leaders.
You also have the opportunity to participate in a monthly telephone session
"For Members Only."
In the future, additional benefits will include a bulleting board and
chat room where members can provide each other with support,
encouragement and wisdom.
Q: Who is in the community?
People
attracted to this community tend to be unique, energetic, intelligent
people. The ages of our participants range from 18 to 65. About
three-quarters of the participants are women and are of many races,
religions, and nationalities.
Participants
have diverse educational, professional and personal backgrounds. They
share a passion for living a more extraordinary and authentic
life.
We
are all wise beyond our knowing. Each of us has the opportunity to
bring to the Lifelines Community and to our Programs our own
unique blend of knowledge, experience and wisdom.
We invite you to become a
member of the Lifelines Community,
participate
in a live Introductory
Session, and ultimately to register
for
the entire Lifelines Program.
We
encourage all members to contribute to the community. We also
encourage participation during the telephone sessions as lively
interactions enrich the quality of everyone’s experience.
These are
just a few of the benefits of being part the Lifelines
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Q:
How can I join the Lifeline Community?
You
become
a
member of the community by giving us your name and email
address.
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Q:
What’s a Lifeline Buddy™?
A Lifelines Buddy
is a special person who signs up with you. We
encourage you sign up with one or more friend, family member or other
important person in your life so that you can support and encourage
each other between calls.
Research has shown that when you have a Lifelines Buddy, you
are
more apt to do the practices
because you have someone to practice with. That’s why we
offer a Buddy
Discount.
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Answers to Financial
Questions
Q:
What does the program cost?
The
cost of the 6-session program and all support materials is
$299.
Introductory
Offer:
$249
if you register by December 31, 2007 –
Save
$50!
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Q:
What
discounts are
available?
Early
Bird Special: Sign up within 48 hours of participating in the
Introduction
to
the Lifelines Program, and pay only $199. This is a savings of
$100!
‘Buddy
Discount’ - Sign up as many friends as you want
within the 48 hours after you experience the Introduction, and they
also
pay only $199 each - even if they weren’t
on the call with you.
Each of your friends saves $100!
Remember,
they’ll
have have
to
experience the Introduction to
the Lifelines Program™before the first session of
the program.
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Q:
What
are the methods for
paying?
We accept PayPal,
money
order or cashier’s check.
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Q:
What
is your refund policy?
Our
intention is that you find relief and move forward in your life. If
at any time you want to stop attending the program, we will refund
your money for the remaining sessions.
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All of this contributes to
making
Lifelines to Laughlines a valuable resource to help you through tough
transitions triggered by life’s major changes.
Participation in
the program will also contribute to your greater success in business
and in life, and you’ll be better prepared for whatever the
future
may bring.
So, if you are in the midst of a tough
transition...
If you find yourself in an emotionally turbulent and uncertain
time...
If you
are
looking for a safe place to connect with others who can
relate
to what you’re going through because they are too...
If
you are
searching for meaning in a recent
transition...
If you want to be
prepared
for whatever the future might
bring...
Then
it's time to sign up for the
free
Introduction to the Lifelines Program.
Investment
in
yourself
and your future.
YOU
DESERVE IT!!!!!
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